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Though this is not the Valentine season yet wanted to write something about it............All the time I have heard people talking about it, read a lot of poetry and stories about it, heard a lot of experiences, seen a lot of movies regarding it………..and finally have come to the conclusion that it sure does exist but only the fortunate few actually live it.

The Webster English dictionary describes LOVE as :


*A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.
*A feeling of intense desire and attraction toward a person with whom one is disposed to make a pair; the emotion of sex and romance.


I had once seen a documentary on Discovery channel about love and it showed that love actually exists only for a short period during which the right part of the brain secretes chemicals which gives people the feeling of experiencing something out of the ordinary, but they also said that the initial phase is pure infatuation and what follows later is compatibility, affection, reliability…etc. and that is what real love is…..

Anyways I have seen many people experience what they think is love, let me give a few egs…

*College love which got lost and put this person in a shell which is difficult to break, left a wound which has still not healed, hope with time and maturity it will……..was it love or infatuation, how can one know???

*An experienced hand in love, first the girl left him and then to boost his low ego fell in love with another and left her, now has the confidence that can make anyone his deewani………is this what love is, can one fall in love with many people, is it love always???

*Has had a score of girlfriends right from class 2 and says he fell in love with each one of them………is it possible to understand love at such a small age, how does one draw a line between flirting and actually being in love???

*A failure in love, tried a lot of times to convince others that he truly and deeply loves the other person but has failed miserably all the times, but very convincingly falls in love again…….is it possible to fall in love so frequently???

*Lovingly calls his love his biwi, have been together for a long time and plan to marry soon, though the girl is not well informed about worldly issues…….so is it still love or a commitment???

*Knew a guy as a best friend who fell in love with her but she never felt the same for him, so despite him saying it a lot of times she never accepted it, now has fallen in love with someone or so she thinks because the feeling just increases everyday, but she will never say it to him and the secret will lie deep in her heart because one word and a lot of things will change and what about her family……….is love not strong enough to give people the strength to accept and just say it???

There are many instances when I do question what LOVE actually is and it surprises me that when the whole world is going mad studying for the upcoming exams, then why the hell am I writing about something I have so little experience and exposure about……

But I do wonder that wouldn’t it be nice for all to fall in love, crazy love, when u don’t give a damn for the world, things are so rosy, you always have a reason to day dream, lots of gifts, and what else would we need then……….to have the right to love and be loved, to stand in front of all and just say the magical words

Some say that nothing like love actually exists, some say it is the best thing that can ever happen to anyone, some say actual love grows with time and its worth experiencing it, for some love is like changing your clothes, for some it’s just a word, while for some its their life……….so whatever it is may those who have it enjoy it and those who don’t, if its worth it, may we all get it sometime soon!!!!!!


2 Responses to “_L_O_V_E_”

  1. Blogger Santosh Jena   

    kya hota hai pyaar???
    pyar, pyar...... dosti hai. agar aap kisi ke acche dost nahin hai to aap pyar nahin kar sakte...(KKHH)

    well, u nicely define what love is with the examples. But everytime u r looking love from different angles. I guess u r quite confused abt love. koi baat nahin, fall in love u'll get 2 know!!!

    lets have a look on ur eg:
    "College love which ....."- This is the time whn ppl usually fall in love n d time 2 take decisions. But this doesn't mean tht u can't love after tht. love can happen anywhere n anytime.

    "An experienced hand in love"- this is a regular trend nowadays, normally called-'use n throw'. Think b4 love.

    "Has had a score of girlfriends right from class 2"- There is 3 different modes of love i.e. Infatuation, love n flirt. ppl havin gf right from class 2, have 2 go thro this. Love can b happen with many ppl(u wont believe). don't try it!

    "A failure in love, tried a lot of times"- This may or may not b love. If it is, then it can b called 'Junnon' or paagalpan.

    "Lovingly calls his love his biwi"- if d gal knows it, then bhaad mein jaaye duniya. vaise bhi ....pyar mein sab chalta hai....

    "Knew a guy as a best friend who fell in love"- pyar kabhi bhi ho sakta hai, if she/he is ur best frnd, then u simply say it. No one will mind it.
    If d gal here say na first, n thn her feelings arise, she must go n tell him, the guy will b the most luckiest 2 get her. love has a magic.

    hope given all answers,
    I believe love exists n it can happen to anyone, anytime n anywhere. Love has no border. It grows with time n yes, love is also blind n deaf, thts why ppl suffer!!!!

     
  2. Blogger Nidhi Narayan   

    @santosh- guru o guru.....aap ne jo mujhe gyaan diya hai uske liye bahut bahut shukriya.....yes yaar as i mentioned in my post i dont thing i am the right person to write on such topics.....but do hope lightning can strike me once

     



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